The real world is not fair. My brother was attacked and left for dead. His now severely brain damaged. I will be honest with you I'm working some things out with God. I can tell you true hatred is where your happy to seek revenge without the fear of God! I have a long way to go however God is working on my heart in regards to forgiveness. I find great rest in the knowledge that yes people may commit a crime against a loved one and no it isn't fair however the almighty has it at hand. The criminal may find rest however the Almighty's eyes are on there ways. If I'm upset by a crime or someone getting hurt how much more is God. God is the ultimate judge. The world needs Jesus our enemies need jesus. If they don't they will surely go to hell to be punished for the crimes commited against them. The ultimate act of forgiveness would be to hand the gospel of John to your enemy. I'm not in a place to do such a thing. I do thank God that I know he has it all in hand. One day everyone will be judged by the heavenly judge. The wages of sin is death.